Like it's probably actually going to be fine but FUCK I can't lose her I'm so scared
So there's this absolute scumbag in North Carolina who hates gay people, and also happens to be blind.
In the last few days I've seen a ton of people mock him for not looking at cameras, or 'the weird way he moves his eyes.' It's a textbook example of why focusing criticism on someone's physical traits is never a good idea.
Most folks I've pointed this out to are suitably chagrined, and I appreciate them <3. A few try to defend themselves. He's a scumbag, so there's no holes barred on insulting him, right? No.
When we mock a bad person for being blind, or fat, or trans, we're telling everyone with those traits that we secretly think they're less than wholly human. Maybe we won't admit it so long they remain "good," but we've admitted that it's there under the surface.
secrets of a DM:
-I don't know what everything means when I do it, I just need to figure it out before you do
-Half the time I give you a puzzle, I haven't thought of a solution -- I'll usually decide that the first or second clever thing you think of is the right solution
-I listen to what you guys theorize about the plot, and often change it so you're *partially* right
-I will let you add details to your backstory on the fly, but anything you say can and will be used against you
Lissa. 32. She/her.
Lez bean, space engineer, trans lady, newbie jeweler, witch, some kinda leftist, part of a very densely interconnected polyball.
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